Hey family
Hey family. Married does not mean you are finished discovering each other. People keep growing. The couples who stay close stay curious. I saw these 50 questions from Dr. Dharius and Shameka Daniels and I want you to have them. Pull one out on a date night, on a walk, in the car, over coffee. Then do the hard part. Actually listen.
Content from Dr. Dharius Daniels and Shameka Daniels. Shared with credit. Rick is packaging for Patreon, not claiming it. Follow @shamekaldaniels.
In This Guide
Childhood
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
- What was your favorite toy growing up?
- What's one childhood memory that still makes you smile?
- What got you in trouble the most?
- What did you want as a child that your family couldn't afford?
- Who made you feel the safest growing up?
- What was your happiest childhood memory?
Teenage Years
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
- What were you most insecure about?
- Who had the biggest influence on you?
- What music reminds you of high school?
- Were you shy or outgoing?
- What teacher impacted you most?
- What trend did you embrace?
Just Curious
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
- What's something you're surprisingly good at?
- What's something you've changed your mind about?
- What's something you wish more people knew about you?
- What's a habit you picked up from your parents?
- What's something that instantly puts you in a good mood?
Dreams
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
- If money wasn't an issue, what hobby would you pick up?
- What's something you've always wanted to learn?
- What's one place you've always wanted to visit?
- What's one experience you hope we have together?
- If you had six months off, what would you do?
Our Story
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
- When did you first know you loved me?
- What's your favorite memory of us dating?
- What's one trip we should take again?
- What's one season of our marriage that made us stronger?
- What's something we laugh about that nobody else would understand?
- What's one thing we've overcome together that you're proud of?
Personality
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
- When do you feel most like yourself?
- What gives you energy?
- What drains you?
- What's something that always relaxes you?
- What makes you feel appreciated?
- What motivates you?
Looking Forward
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
- What are you most excited about right now?
- What's one thing you hope this next year brings?
- What's something you want us to experience together?
- What's one tradition you'd like us to start?
- What would make this year unforgettable?
Would You Rather
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
Would you rather... and why?
- Live at the beach or in the mountains?
- Cook together or go out to eat?
- Watch a movie or play a game?
- Plan every vacation or be spontaneous?
- Stay home or travel every weekend?
Tell Me More
Ask one. Listen all the way through. Then ask the next.
Finish these sentences
- I wish more people knew...
- I've never told you...
- The older I get...
- One thing that still hurts is...
- One thing I'm really proud of is...
- One thing I hope never changes is...
Pick one tonight
Pick one tonight. Ask it. Listen. Let's discuss this in the comments.
I love you.
Content from Dr. Dharius Daniels and Shameka Daniels. Shared with credit. This packaging is for The Grace Life Community on Patreon.
Take the notes with you
Printable PDF of all 50 questions. Letter size. Ready for date night.